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So, pressure falls on the girl to find work to support the children and her aging parents, who, by the way, she has already disappointed by having a failed marriage, and further upset by now being a single mother and scarring the face of family pride.Girl then becomes determined to give a better life to her children, and to elevate the face of her family in the village.It is part of it, but the longer you live here the more insignificant it becomes. But for all the hatred and idiocy ranted on forums and blogs by “barstool experts”, people would do well to remember that these girls are the daughters and sisters of other human beings, and at one time children with dreams and aspirations – just like our own children.I don't want to waste time discussing questions like “Can bar girls ever be faithful”? Don't get me wrong: I have no problem with casual sex. So, the point of this one and only article about bar girls is to go beyond the heavy make-up and high heels and look at the industry from the ground up.Recently a friend of mine asked me why I didn’t write posts about Thai bar girls and the sex scene to increase traffic on my blog. The answer was short and simple, yet the explanation slightly longer. The subject matter of bar girls has been discussed into oblivion on hundreds of other websites.Blog and forum owners happily let people thrash out misogynistic musings on their sites as link-bait to drive traffic, but this isn’t what I set up my blog to do, and the reality is that Thailand is so much more than the bar scene.When you debate this issue and use the word “choice” as your key defence, do you mean the same “choices” (quote on quote) that you would accept for your kids or close friends? If the alternative career paths wouldn't provide an acceptable level of living for our children, then how can we so flippantly use the word “choice” as a justification for what these girls do?I won’t lie: indeed my eyes danced when I first saw the bright lights, high heels, elegance and youthful beauty of the girls in the go-go bars, and it really didn’t compute that the hostesses in the bars were actually no different to the hookers lurking in the back streets of Soho, London.
So even if the girl wants to leave after arrival, she will have to work off that debt first.But as I have covered, the unfair cultural pressures and limited choice of economic progression force the hand into the fire.So the word “choice” becomes an ambiguous one at best.This is a devious way to keep the recruitment numbers high and the deserters low.I mean, once you've sold your body a few times the deed is done; it's pointless returning to disappoint your parents with the news that you didn't make it in the “big city” after all.