Dating a man who will not commit
How does a man feel when he is in love is tied to how much he admires the woman in his life.
By bearing down on him to make an ‘all or nothing’ decision, you will only make him associate pain and stress with commitment.
Though it might seem somewhat like a game, it will encourage a man stay because he feels like he’s been awarded your attention and company over many others.
Being selective means you let him know that while you like him and enjoy being with him, you are also a woman with options who is in control of what happens to her. By continuing to have a life outside him—nurturing your hobbies, spending time with friends and family, improving your life and career.
” Another mistake women make when men won’t commit is trying to be colder towards him. Although it’s right that you might want to back off a bit (or even date other men), you want to make sure that whatever time you do spend together is the most fun he could possibly have!
That way when you leave he’ll think: “I want to spend more time with this girl, we have such an amazing time together!