Dating ex player
If he refers to you as a friend, both in private and in public, he is letting you and everyone else know his options are still open. Casual conversation does nothing to reveal whether or not he is having or has had a sexual relationship with any of these friends, and you are deliberately left wondering what makes you any more special than the others. The only thing that makes you crazy is coming back for more. Waiting for someone to change should never be a consideration. Otherwise, you may never find what you are looking for. He will want you and the rest of the world to know you are unavailable to any other man. Not only are most of his friends women, they too are referred to as friends. Though there are exceptions to every rule, and people can and do change, the odds are not stacked in your favor. Never promising more, only toying with your emotions, making you wonder whether this time things will be different. At some point it comes time to recognize the cycle, and break it.
Is he someone you can trust or should you have your guard up?
Whether it is during the first conversation talk turns to sex, or on the first date, you can be pretty confident this guy is looking to get naked with you, and fast. He pulls back, even disappears, as soon as things go well. The relationship you think you are building is moving along nicely. But then when he does, the relationship never progresses. If you need to analyze what he means, then he likely does not mean what he says. In his mind he has covered himself and, in a way, he has. You know what they do, what they say, and what they like, but you do not know them personally. If you think your guy is a player, chances are it is you who is being played.
He texts that he misses you, and cannot wait to see you. If you try to pin him down for plans more than a week in advance, you will find yourself standing on shaky ground, never being sure such arrangements will come to pass until you are in the midst of them. Surely he has made his intentions known to you over and over again. You may feel like you know them because he speaks about them constantly.
Is he going to be exclusive with you or does he want to be able to be free and do whatever he wants? So before you start to fall too hard for this dude, figure out whether or not he’s a player. Check out these 10 signs that he’s a player: This is probably the biggest sign there is that a dude is a player.
When we have a crush on someone, it can be hard to see them for who they really are, especially if that person is a player. They’re a little manipulative and they know how to get a girl to fall hard. If he's all about hooking up, that could definitely mean that he's just using you for sex or a steamy makeout sesh. The next time he asks if you want to hang out, say, "how about we go see a movie/grab something to eat?