Dating vs hanging out article
What happened to knowing if you were dating or not? Just tell me already because I want to know if I should wait five minutes before I open your Snapchat, and the anxiety is killing me. To know if you are just hanging out, you're the only one he's hanging out with?Or to know he sees this thing as more than a casual hookup? I don’t know, but instead of putting yourself down or letting everyone and their mother tell you how dumb you are, remember, at least you have Hanging out isn’t something you’d tell your mother during the holidays, but it’s nothing to torture yourself over, either.I want to feel secure and know who I am to someone, even if we start off a bit shaky. Haven’t you’ve heard, some people get married drunk and forget who they even got married to? Think of it like this: Hanging out is a phase, and hopefully, it’ll go away soon, along with crop tops and bad ombrés.If you can skip that weird waiting period, all power to you.
Speaking from personal experience, even the most confident man can be intimidated by the prospect of revealing his true feelings. To temper the possible blow of rejection, we often opt for a hangout.So you’re chilling with him at the bar and it gets pretty late. 1) You can take your drunk self back to your apartment, or 2) you can take your drunk self to his apartment. And if you play your cards right, he’ll want to see you again. It’s time to be intentional about our actions and say what we mean.Not expressing myself is the equivalent of holding my breath longer than a minute: I can’t do it.As a guy, I understand that most of the confusion starts with us.More often than not, we choose to suggest a casual-sounding hangout rather than an actual date.